Inner Game And How To Not Feel Like A Doofus
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How can a doofus like me be really good with women? Read on . . .
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OK, . . . I just spilled my coffee . . . in public . . . again.
I was sitting at Starbucks, reached for my notebook, and knocked my coffee right on the floor.
I felt like a doofus.
Of course I did my best to spin the frame, but I still felt like a clumsy doofus.
I seem to do the same thing about every three years. Out of nowhere I get clumsy and spill my coffee.
You might think I SHOULD feel like a doofus for spilling my coffee in public, but as I thought about it, . . . I realized something . . .
I actually don’t spill my coffee that often, . . . considering . . .
Do a little math with me here.
I get 3 cups of joe a day, pretty religiously.
There are 365 days in a year.
At 3 years, that’s 3285 cups of coffee per spill.
And if we estimate that I pick up each cup 10 times while drinking it . . .
I actually successfully pick up my coffee 32849 times for every time I spill it.
That’s frickin 99.997% accuracy.
Show me a basketball player who can shoot free throws with that accuracy.
Show me a place kicker in football who can kick extra points with that accuracy.
Seriously, man. That’s frickin accurate.
Isn’t it?
I can’t think of many other things I’m that accurate with.
But here’s what’s crazy.
I’m 99.997% accurate, but I
still feel like a doofus when I fail
to pick up my coffee without spilling.
So then I thought, . . . what happens when we fail to get a good response when approaching a woman?
If I feel like a doofus when I spill a cup of coffee, it feels even worse after a clumsy approach.
There’s shame, embarrassment, feelings of inadequacy, and on and on.
Add to that the fact that even the world’s best pick up artists succeed only one time in three . . .
It’s no wonder guys all over the world
freak out about approaching women.
If you’re not good with women, you might succeed only one time in 10. And if you decide you’re going to approach a woman every day, you can look forward to feeling very bad emotions a whole bunch of days in a row.
When you’re just starting out (you’re young, or just getting out of a long relationship), it’s enough to make you want to just give up sometimes.
Even if you’re something of a player, you might still feel vulnerable at times.
That’s why . . .
It’s vitally important to get your inner game in order.
In order to succeed with women, you have to do one of two things:
1. figure out how to not get rejected as often.
2. figure out how to not feel like a doofus when you do get rejected.
I’ll have a lot of advice about #1 in the coming months.
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Take Care.
T.P.
P.S. Anyone else have a clumsy bone? Feel free to comment.