How To Flirt With Women . . . (cleverly)
Ever get tongue-tied when talking with an attractive woman? Not know what to say?
I’m going to get you going on the right track today.
But you’re going to have to do a little bit of work over time.
Here’s how to verbally flirt with women in a nutshell:
- The best approach is to respond quickly (spontaneously) to something she says or does, or something that happens around you.
- Your reply should re-frame reality in a fun way. For instance, if a woman is kneeling down at the bookstore to see books on the bottom shelf, you could interpret her act as an act of worship to you. That’s a really strong and fun frame. You could say something like, “Oh, it’s great that you’re bowing down to me and all, but I stopped requiring that years ago . . .”
- Your frame needs to suggest things that support your goals — that you’re the prize, that she’s trying to impress you, etc.
- You should deliver your line with an attitude of playful arrogance. Act like a big man, but make her feel like you’re on her side. Let a smile be right under the surface.
So, how do you come up with lines that meet all these conditions on the fly?
You don’t.
You prepare your lines ahead of time, so you’ll be ready when you need them..
How?
You write down all the situations you might find yourself in that you’d like to have a good line for, and then you brainstorm good lines for those situations.
Where do you come up with these ideas?
- From situations you’ve been in and didn’t have a good line for
- From just thinking about your life, and the situations you tend to find yourself in the presence of beautiful women in.
- From times you actually came up with something good to say.
- From other guys. Have them share their flirting lines/situations with you.
Once you have a list of situations, just try to come up with a few lines for each that meet all the criteria above.
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Enjoy!
Sincerely,
T.P.
P.S. for a complete course on this flirting method, pick up a copy of Flirting Deconstructed